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Support during Coronavirus (COVID-19)

WE ARE OPEN. We are continuing to accept referrals. Throughout the pandemic we have been offering telephone, video and online therapy, all of which have proved to be successful. Face to face appointments are also available. Due to Coronavirus (Covid-19), we have made some temporary changes to keep you and our staff safe.

Support during Coronavirus (COVID-19)

Couples therapy for depression

Couples therapy for depression helps people in Rotherham who are suffering from depression by using the relationship as a resource to help support the individual and their partner. It is an ‘evidence-based’ therapy, as research has shown that this kind of couples therapy works.

There are other types of talking therapies that can help individuals suffering from anxiety and depression; however, this focuses on the relationship in the context of depression.

People who are depressed often find their relationships suffer and sometimes problems in the relationship can lead to one or other partner becoming depressed or anxious. Couples therapy for depression deals with both the depression and the relationship distress.

Why consider couples therapy?

People might benefit from couples therapy for many different reasons. It may be that the relationship has broken down or that there is anxiety that it might. Sustaining a fulfilling and stable relationship is never easy.

Pressures from work, money, children, family tensions and ill health can all contribute to creating problems and these problems can lead to depression and other difficulties for one or both partners.

Sometimes couples can’t talk to each other, and meeting with a couples therapist can open the way to better communication, which is a key part of improving relationships.

Rotherham IAPT counsellors aim to help you to achieve the following through couples therapy:

  • recovery from depression
  • better communication and ability to work together
  • greater awareness of each of your needs
  • greater understanding of your partner and yourself, and of the differences between you
  • a better sense of closeness between the two of you
  • being less stuck in repeating patterns in your relationships
  • help with feelings of anxiety and stress in facing the challenges of your relationship and family life
  • help with coming to terms with life changes such as the arrival of children, bereavement or separation
  • a more stable family life
  • greater confidence about the future.

How does it work?

Couples therapy helps those who are suffering from depression by reducing the kinds of things that make partners feel alone and distressed, or which push partners apart and make them feel angry with each other.

It improves your relationship by helping you both to work together on the things that create unhappiness and to move on from stuck and sometimes hostile patterns of interaction. It helps you to understand each other at an emotional level as well as a practical one (how you feel and what you do). It gives you skills as well as understanding.

This can lead to a happier and more fulfilling relationship in which differences between you are not so problematic. This relieves depression which in turn improves your relationship. This positive cycle improves mood and emotional wellbeing.